First year Wedding Anniversary

Today is the first year anniversary of our wedding. 17 March 2012, we walked down the isle of Grand Shanghai, waving to the crowd while they are cheering us on…the memory is still fresh in my mind.
Tomorrow is the 7th year anniversary of us being together. 18 March 2006, after dinner while walking home, I asked if she would mind allowing me to be the first man to hold her hand as a boyfriend…she said yes and the rest is history.

Memories are past events but they are happy events. The aim is not to hold on to past memories and pretend everything is going to happen just like last time. We will grow old, we will have new directions and new encounters in life, all these are part and parcel of life but the only thing that shall and MUST remain constant, is US holding each other’s hands, cheering each other on, creating new happy memories together.

I am not a good husband, I lied to my wife, I lost control of my emotions and shouted in front of her. I attempted to boast of my almost negligible contribution towards doing housework…

In this anniversary special, I shall attempt to re-visit the happy memories of the past 1 year, hoping to add on more new memories.

First up is Our Spain-Portugal-London honeymoon! Darling and I had many firsts during this honeymoon…First LIVE soccer match, First Bull Fight, First Europe trip.

Nou Camp

Nou Camp


Spain

Spain


Madrid strawberry Bear

Madrid strawberry Bear


Having tea

Having tea


Segovia castle

Segovia castle


Sagrada Familia

Sagrada Familia


Toro Toro!

Toro Toro!


Portugal Belem Tower

Portugal Belem Tower


Big Ben

Big Ben


London Tower Bridge

London Tower Bridge

We followed soon with our Part 2 Europe honeymoon at Italy. Shopping paradise for darling. And we conquered 1 Wonder of the World…

Colosseum

Colosseum


Mouth of Truth

Mouth of Truth


Florence Duomo

Florence Duomo


Leaning Tower of Pisa

Leaning Tower of Pisa


Milan Duomo

Milan Duomo


Gondola in Venice

Gondola in Venice

We celebrated my birthday at the beautiful St Regis, thanks to darling’s recommendation.

St Regis birthday dinner

St Regis birthday dinner

We watched only 1 musical last year at MBS as there isn’t any nice ones after Oz and the Lion King.

A Chorus Line

A Chorus Line

After which came our Part 3 Europe Honeymoon in France. We got to see iconic structures such as the Eiffel Tower and Lourve and iconic Mona Lisa.

Half Timbered Houses

Half Timbered Houses


Le Mont Saint Michel

Le Mont Saint Michel


Icon of Love

Icon of Love

We saw the MBS Harry Potter exhibition.

Harry Potter

Harry Potter

We celebrated Darling’s birthday at the Lighthouse @ Fullerton.

Post dinner Merlion shot

Post dinner Merlion shot

We visited the Gardens by the Bay this year, really quite a world class garden, well planned and beautiful.

Cloud Garden

Cloud Garden


Gardens by the Bay

Gardens by the Bay

Last but not least, we had a wonderful Italian Dinner at Buona Terra on Valentine’s Day.

Valentine Dinner @ Buona Tera

Valentine Dinner @ Buona Tera

The year has been fruitful in terms of travel experiences and lots of firsts with darling. I hope to create more of such good memories with darling.

A year on, after a few bad quarrels, I have seen darling getting more and more impatient with me. Even though we are quarreling less, the main root of every quarrel remains constant…ME…
I need to change, I promised I will change but have not been able to do so.
I vowed to
i. change my bad habits of trying to prove myself (due to low self esteem and low confidence)
ii. not to raise my voice at darling again
iii. tell my feelings to darling more
iv. answer darling’s questions straight to the point
v. Any other things which can improve our relationship

Darling has not been happy today because of me.
I do not wish to be the root of darling’s unhappiness…
Worse of all, I do not wish to be chased away by darling…

Today is our anniversary darling, even though it may not be a happy one, I hope that we can re-live the memories 1 more time.
I love you.

You are my first love, and my only darling.

I love you.

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Grand Shanghai Wedding 17 March 2012 Banquet

It’s our wedding day!


This is the finale of the day. It’s the final piece of the day’s event and we all deserve to finish it with a BANG! My brothers were early to help with the set up of the restaurant and the arrangement of the photo albums. We have a total of … Pre-ROM album, scrapbook album, Romantic Wedding album, Universal Studios themed album and the Shanghai themed wedding album… 5 albums! Haha.
I was lucky to see the same day edit while Jason was loading it into the computer. Man, I was blown away TOTALLY! It was damn bloody awesome!! I immediately rushed over to Han Siong and shook his hand! Man, he did a fabulous job! Thank you Han Siong and academy video!
A few shots of the restaurant taken beautifully by Yu Hsin.

The grand ballroom feel

Our Ang Pao cage

table decor with wedding gift

plate decor

table centerpiece


Our Emcees for the night Edric and Weili


Guests started arriving and we are all busy entertaining them. Wedding banquets are great platforms for friends to meet up and exchange stories. Friends whom we only communicate via SMS or MSN or FB can all meet face to face to have a mini gathering of sorts.

what are they happily discussing about?


And finally the beautiful bride makes a grand appearance!

The wonderful sisters


We had a loop of our pre-wedding shots during the cocktail period, while waiting for about 80% of the guests to arrive, together with music and songs from Jim Brickman…truly romantic.
When it’s finally time for our big moment, we stepped outside and waited eagerly for our turn to walk down the aisle! We have our childhood montage played, followed by the ROM montage done up by Rick, our ROM photographer.

Eagerly waiting for the walk-in


Waiting for our montage to finish playing


Entrance of the beautiful bride and ahem..handsome groom


Cheeky moments

enjoying the attention


Next we have to move to center stage, where we will make a symbolic cutting of our wedding cake!

Cake cutting


We can settle down for our food! No time to waste, coz we only can eat 2 courses before having to go change up again…haha. The live band started their show and the guests are well entertained with Old Shanghai classics performed by a seasoned singer, backed up by the powerful music from the grand piano, cello and saxophone.

The Grand Shanghai band


enjoying the oldies


Sharing stories


We finished our double boiled shark’s fin and have to prepare for our changing parade.

Leaving hand in hand for our change of gowns


While we are changing out, the crowd is continued to be awed by the 3 piece band and live singer. The Emcees take the stage again after 2 more courses and introduced the same-day-edit video. By this time, Darling have already finished changing into her gorgeous cheongsam! Haha, she was so excited!! And it’s her first time looking at the video, although it’s a partially blocked view due to the pillar.

Big smiles upon seeing our same-day-edit video by academy videos production


Then it’s our turn to WOW the crowd again with our second march-in, to the tune of “Cha-Cham-Bo”! We attempted a dance but it’s such a failure that Yu Hsin didn’t take any shots of it! Haha. But I enjoyed the stupid moment.

2nd march-in


It’s champagne popping time after the 2nd march-in and it’s another round of applause.

Champagne fountain


A kiss after the exchange of toast


I delivered a simple speech, thanking all the guests etc…actually I also cannot remember what I talked about. Haha. Does not matter, Happy 就好!
Next up are the table shots… 22 tables, so chop chop finish already! The time passes very quickly and the banquet is almost coming to an end.

VIP table


Darling enjoying herself


The OAC family


Of course, all thanks to Yikai and his powerful concoction, I was drunk in no time! Hahaha

Toast to my longest pal, Yikai


The banquet has come to an end, we thanked our guests with a warm handshake and it’s time to rest.
Tomorrow is the start of our Honeymoon!!!

The Rings that bind us… …

Australia 23 – 31 July 2011

This was planned to be our last major travel this year so we will have to consider carefully. Having conquered Beijing earlier, there is a inner wish to conquer an “Ang Mo” country which is within budget. So we were thinking, Ang-Mo country that is nearer to us so we can save on airfare…..The Land Down Under —> Australia! And as the official tourism website suggets, “There’s nothing like Austrlia”
So we have 9 days and 8 nights in Australia, but bearing in mind the time difference of 2 hours and the flight time of 7h 40min, the first and last days will be used up mainly for travelling, thus I only have 7 good days to plan for fun. As Kiasu as I am, I love to cramp as much as possible in my trips (poor darling often have to walk a lot during travel with me, but I am sure she likes it! Haha). 3 destinations it shall be! Sydney, Gold Coast Surfer’s Paradise and the Snowy Mountains. Darling have been wanting to see the Sydney Opera House ever since her eldest sister went to Australia for her honeymooon, and me being the ever-enthu theme park freak, would love to visit the theme park wonderland of Gold Coast. The decision for the Snowy Mountains is simple, we have never ever seen or touched real snow before, so this time MUST see snow!!
Day 1:
Mainly used for travel, even though we took the 9.40AM flight, with the additional 2 hours of time difference, it’s already 7-8PM local time. So we took a short stroll to Darling harbour for dinner @ Hard Rock Cafe and returned to hotel. The weather is excellent!!!

Darling Harbour with Darling


Hard Rock Cafe


Day 2:
Today is a walking tour day as I planned for us to walk from hotel through the Sydney CBD, all the way to the Opera house and to walk across the Harbour Bridge. Sounds Un-doable? That’s what I thought too, but darlig proved me wrong! She is able to cover everything! We went to St Andrew’s Cathedral, then to Queen Victoria Building, The Strand, walked through Pitt Street before we reached the Hyde Park. We had lunch at a cafe inside QVB and the interior decor is super Victorian style, Darling’s style too! It’s very relaxing to just stroll inside the buildings and shopping malls, admiring the decor, window shopping, have a cuppa, very relaxing lifestyle. Of course, there are funny moments during the stroll coz it’s also infested with the ever-so-terrifying “Gruuuul, Gruuuuul” pigeons and Darling is constantly on the lookout for them while walking on the streets! Haha, so cute!

St Andrew's Cathedral


Queen Victoria Building


The Strand


Hyde Park is an amazing park and the St Mary’s Church forms a beautiful backdrop with the the Archibald Fountain in the foreground. Hyde park is full of activities, there’s a giant chess set where people can gather to watch 2 chess masters battle it out; there are people strolling or jogging; there is a bubble-man amusing the children while earning some tips from parents. The park is big and lots of greenery around. The Archibald fountain is impressive withthe sculptures. But the highlight is still the majestic St Mary’s Church, which is the seat of the arch-bishop of Australia. Churches always give us the feeling of serenity and peace withthe high ceilings, cool interior and the calmness within. sitting inside a church can relax u instantly. I am not a christian, I just love churches. =) And I think darling do too!

St Mary's Church with the Archibald fountain


From the St Mary’s Church, we walked on the Hyde Park Barracks and onto Macquarie Street. Along the way we passed several victorian style and colonial style buildings with the Sydney Hospital attracting me most. How nice would it be to work within such such environment, rather than the boring hospitals in Singapore. The Sydney National library is also impressive with the columns on exterior facade. We finally reached Opera House and it is beautiful! The sails and glittering tiles under the evening sun, set next to the harbour. The giant Coat-hanger Harbour bridge is equally pretty! Seagulls are aplenty, even though they fly around just like pigeons, darling is not so terrified…maybe looks do matter. Seagulls look harmless and cute even!

Opera House


We took a ferry across to Luna Park and admired the Opera House and Harbour bridge from the sea and they look even nicer from the sea!

Harbour bridge


Luna Park is like the old school funfair and it can be quite spooky at night since it totally resembles the fun fairs of horror movies!!

Luna Park


We walked across the harbour bridge from Luna Park and can claim an experience not many will have! Haha, tour groups will never walk across the bridge! We have dinner of Fish n Chips before taking a ferry back to Darling harbour and our hotel. An eye-opening Day 2 for me.
Day 3:
We are supposed to go to the Fish Market early in the morning but darling is tired from her menses…poor women…so after a few “5 minutes” we set off to have our seafood breakfast/lunch/brunch! Lolz, the fish market is still quite crowded at 11am and the seafood selection is amazing! It even made darling hungry!! ShioK! What did we eat? Grilled lobster, grilled full snapper, scallops, fresh BIG prawns, Fresh oysters and fresh Abalones!!

Fish paradise for Humans


Fresh Abalone


Finish off the meal with a giant scone and muffin, and it is one of the best meals we had! Darling loved the fresh abalone! Next up we went to Sydney Aquarium but I feel that our Underwater World is better…hmm…I bought tickets to the Sydney wildlife world but it was closed for rennovation! OMG! Looks like our koala hugging photo have to wait! We had a short stroll around Darling Harbour and finished up the night with hot chocolate and delicious macarons from Lindt! Heavenly!!

"Darling I want Macaron"....."Nah, give you"


Day 4:
Rise and shine my dear, today is another long haul travel day. We are going towards our SNOW!!! We are taking a greyhound coach directly to the ski-tube terminal in Bullocks Flat, another 7-8 hours of sitting and sleeping. The ski-tube is actually a rail system which brings passengers from the base of mountain to the mid-mountain snow resort Perisher Valley. I chose accomodation near the ski-tube terminal so that we can have an early start on SNOW tomorrow! Once we reached the ski-tube terminal, it’s already 3pm, by the time we reached our accomodation at Lake Crakenback Resort, it’s almost 4pm. So we decided to just walk around the resort, experience some alpine wind, and relax before our big day at the SNOW!! Dinner was delicious fireplace pizza..yummy!

Lake Crackenback


Day 5:
Today shall our first ever experience on snow! So exciting to share this moment with darling! We shall conquer more first-time experiences together! We have a First timers package which includes skis, pants, poles, ski-tube tickets, lift pass and a 2.5 hour lesson!
We have a hard time trying our the equipment, and the ski-shoes are really difficult to wear and very uncomfortable too! But what to do? Skiing is a high risk sport so must be Kiasu about safety. We arrived on the snow finally at 12pm and I am damn excited to see the white shimmering snow!! I was too excited and wanted to put on my skis and start skiing straight away! Opps, and I caused darling to fall over a few times too. Poor darling I am sorry! I am just a kid inside, seeing snow for the very first time! Haha. We built our very snow-man while waiting for our lesson at 1pm and just sat around to enjoy the snow. It’s just 1 big giant plate of fine ice crystals! I am loving every moment. I took out my gloves to touch the snow and BOY, it’s freezing! Almost had my whole hand drop off from the cold but still shiok!!

Darling with our Snowman


Our Snow lesson instructor was from Italy and I am glad we had this lesson, so darling and I can appreciate skiing. The most important take homne message from the lesson….”Snow pla”. That’s the most used word by the instructor! Haha, it means forming a “pizza” shape using the skis to control our speed while skiing. He tried to teach us how to turn left and right but I still cannot master the technique. Darling fell a few times coz her balacing is not as good (oops, sure to ganna her biting my ears one) but I hope she enjoyed her time on the snow as much as I do!! Yah yah, I even “swam” on snow!

Darling on snow! YEAH!


me pose pose only..haha


We licked icicles directly from the tree branches and I ate snow direct from the ground too! Yes yes yes, unhygienic but I really don’t care! Haha. SNOW RULEZ!! 1 small mistake…. Aiyah, I made darling angry coz I left her alone on the chairlift….I tried to rush in after her when the chair lift arrived but the safety barrier closed down before I could pass so she’s left alone on the chair lift…I tried to make up for it loh, I even wrote “darling I love you” on the snow…wonder if it touched her or not…I think it did coz she still hugged me before we left the snow. YESSSSS!!!
Day 6:
Day 6 is another hectic day, we had to catch a 7.50AM greyhound coach to Canberra Airport, in order to catch our 12.30PM flight to Brisbane. The Canberra airport is still under construction so nothing much to see there. We reached Brisbane at 2pm, but the bloody pick up transport cocked up big time and arrived only at 3+!! Lucky today’s activity is a night activity. I am bringing Darling to Curumbin Wildlife Sanctuary for their Wildnight tour! We have a buffet BBQ dinner before the actual tour. We are split up into 2 grops and the guides will bring us through the park. We got an opportunity to take photos with baby crocodiles and pythons AND we finally took our Koala Photo!! And it comes with 4 photo fridge magnets too!

Happy Family


Crocodiles, snakes, Wombats, Koalas, Dingo, Kangeroos we saw and we also saw a perfomance by the Aboriginals. They performed several dances around a fire and we had a rare photo opportunity with them too!

Aboriginal photo


Kangeroo feeding is fun! Darling again is still haunted by the Deer feeding experience in Japan..haha. Can see her scared face at times when too many kangeroos confronted her! So cute my darling!! We had an early night as the next day will be theme park day!!
Day 7:
Our initial plan was for Dreamworld as we had a few “5 minutes” after waking up and we wanted to spend more time in Movie World, so thinking of going tomorrow instead. But when the bus arrived at Movie World, darling says “Dar Dar, I wanna go movie world today” and she looked at me with those cute little puppy eyes….my heart melted and so we ended up at Movie World today! Haha, very drama hor! LOlz, I think darling will Pengz when she read this. The Warner Brothers Movie world is almost like our universal studios since it has a movie theme but it also has many WB cartoon characters which we see during our childhood days…Bugs Bunny, Tweety, Sylvester, Taz, Scooby Doo etc, together with Batman, Catwoman, really a nice nice theme park. The rides are cool as well, Superman escape, Batwing, a pity darling don’t dare to try them.

Warner Brothers Movie World


There’s also a daily parade at about 3-4pm, where the characters will be on their respective vehicles and parade on main street. There’s the Justice League, Tweety, Bugs in his limo, Sylvester is his car with his head, Scooby Doo and gang in their Mystery Inc Van, Joker and his float etc.
At night we had a stroll at the Surfer’s night market by the beach. Wow, a lot of locals set up stalls here with their own DIY goods. We are particularly impressed by the glass-maker. He was blowing shapes right in front of our eyes. We bought about A$160 worth of glass ornaments, to be used to decorate our Love Nest in Punggol Springs!

He has been doing this for 30 years!


We also bought a plaster signboard that says “Home Sweet Home” from another stall for A$5. Damn cheap lah.
Day 8:
Dreamworld it shall be for today! Our final theme park in Australia.

DreamWorld


It looks old from the outside, not as glamorous as Movie World. It is based on a pair of Koalas characters Kenny and Belinda. It has a family feel this themepark. It’s a mixture of feelings when I stepped into this theme park. The rides look awesome but the different worlds does not look too impressive. There is a Nickelodeon section with the Spongebob and a Wiggies World (we think it’s a kids show in Australia). There’s a wildlife world, an Old West section and ? Ocean section rides. There is this famous Big 6 thrill rides in Dreamworld: Motocoaster, The Giant Drop, The Tower of Terror 2, The claw, Wipeout, The cyclone. I tried out Giant drop, Tower of terror and Wipeout. Wipeout is fun and thrilling but The tower of terror 2 is shockingly fun!! Giant drop is not too bad lah, it’s quite scary when you are suspended so high up in the air without knowing when it’ll drop down!! The overall feeling is not as fun in Dreamworld, maybe we are more familiar with the WB characters but I enjoy the experience at Movie world more. What about you darling? I think she will like Movie World more too.
We tried going back to the night stalls we went to last night, hoping to find more unique stuff for our home but to our surprise, the stalls are gone! Looks like they are open only yesterday! We are so glad we bought a lot last night! We had a stroll around surfer’s paradise and the Ang-Mo are really crazy when they are partying…maybe that’s why it’s more fun to party with Ang-Mos. They are really wild and their dresses are really skimpy! How did they tahan the cold wind at night?? Booze and maybe a bit of drugs?
We are feeling really tired today, maybe we played too hard for the last few days…haha. We just lay down on the bed and slept without bathing and changing clothes!!
Day 9:
Today is a short day. Darling woke up early today. She wanted to accompany me to see the famous golden beaches of Gold Coast. The scenery is really nice, almost post-card like. How can I resist not writing on the sand? “Dar Dar loves Darling”.

Relax on a giant beach deck chair


I love you Darling and I hope you will remember this trip for a long long time. Looking forward to our next trip together! Where shall we go for our honeymoon in March 2012???

First Inspection

I think this post has been long delayed!! Haha, decided to do some documentation of the progress of our love nest.

We have returned from Australia and paying a first visit to our Love Nest. Got news from my parents that my floor has been almost done up and that it look gorgeous….well, of course we knew it would look gorgeous, but it just feels so SHIOK when another person compliments it!!

Darling in our bright reflective living room, lucky she did not wear a short mini skirt.... =p


We did curbs for our 2 bathrooms too, to designate a shower area, which is prone to flooding. This is to keep our main bathroom area dry, especially in our MBR bathroom which has its own vanity top

Common Bathroom


This is the common bathroom curb for the shower area. We are planning on leaving it as it is but will buy a nice shower screen to prevent splashing =)

Long shower curb to accomodate our sliding shower screen


The above is our MBR bathroom. There will be a tempered glass sliding shower screen. There will also be a vanity top, just like in the hotel on the opposite side.
The only thing that is not done is our MBR floor, as they claimed that the tiles are not enough and there are ordering from the shop again.

This is how our beloved MBR look like when she's naked...haha

We have a nicely decorated dining area that is covered in brick tiles. It is going to be painted white tentatively. Then we can hang Black and White pictures of us! YEAH!!

Our semi-done Dining Area feature wall

And finally it’s the picture that puts places into perpective.

Darling in our Love Nest with dining area behind


Hope there will be more updates!

5 years Anniversary

180306, a 6 digit code which may not mean anything to the reader, but it means everything to me and darling.
These 6 digits marks the beginning of the everlasting love me and darling shall share through this life and the next and the next and the next…….
18 March 2006, I popped the question to ask darling to be my first girlfriend and 18 March 2011, today, I still did not regret asking that question.

This year, we have a special way of celebrating it… … A 二人世界澳门香港欢乐游! We went Japan during our 1st year anniversary and so we shall go Macau and Hong Kong during our 5th year anniversary! But since this is the 5th year, we shall throw in a Beijing trip!! Yeah!! We are doing a DOUBLE SLAM!! We shall go Hong Kong from 20-27 March and then Beijing from 3-10 April! Shiokness +++

Tomorrow we shall go to Mandarin Oriental Hotel for our complimentary 1 night deluxe room stay then we shall set off to Macau lo!
Food and fun awaits Darling and Me…..

—–CHIONG AH ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !——

1 year on and I still love you!

Today is the 1st year anniversary of our marriage! A year has passed and many things have happened within this 1 year. Some stay the same but some changed for the better.
1) We have both grown 1 year older (but this time we both aged a year together as man and wife)
2) Darling completed her double slam of the nursing degree and her advanced diploma in intensive care
3) We still quarrel at times but made up everytime
4) We still go out and enjoy good food together
5) Darling still poses as my model for my photoshoots
6) Darling has tried really hard to control her temper (Thank you Darling!)
7) I have tried to minimize my silly mistakes… tried to be less selfish (but still failed terribly, sorry darling, but I will try)
8 ) We still enjoy looking at our ROM photos and Venus Photoshoot pictures.
9) We still laughed at the silly videos we shot during our mini-honeymoon at Bali last year
10) We still loved each other deep down in our hearts and cannot live without each other.

We had our anniversary dinner at Little Bali in Gillmore village on 29 Jan 2011 as the evil ward sister declined darling’s request for morning shift on 31 Jan 2011. Well, at least she gave darling a morning shift so we can celebrate our ROM anniversary in advance, so I must be grateful… … Evil Ward Sister… ….
Ok, I was searching through the Net for suitable places to dine in when this Villa Bali came into the picture. We have thought of holding our ROM there previously but somehow the theme don’t match so have to give it a go.
We went for our Mini-Honeymoon in Bali so I thought of recreating the Bali experience with our own Balinese hut, having a Balinese BBQ dinner together under candlelight and surrounded by lush greenery.
The sky cried with joy? It has never stopped raining since the start of the day, and it continued to rain even when we reached Villa Bali. Maybe Heaven is giving us the romantic ambience? Heehee.
The whole area is really secluded and gave us a feel of being away from it all, entering into a world of our own. Tea candles led us to our very own Lesehan. There is even a heart shaped decoration at the entrance to our Lesehan.

The Balinese waitress lighting up the candles

We decided to play around, take some pictures before ordering the food, take a look at our Lesehan!

A view of our neighbouring hut


Darling getting ready for the feast

Next we were served with our welcome drink. We both chose the alcoholic cocktail “Bali Cooler”, surprising cooling and not much alcohol taste.

Bali Coolers

We can’t wait for our dinner! We are both famished!!
While the kitchen is busy with our orders, I kept darling busy with video footages from our ROM in Shangri-la Waterfall Terrace! Haha, uploaded into my iPhone of course! The wonderful iPhone….how can I do without it?

interim entertainment before food arrives...scenes from our ROM


Another scene for memories, Ring Exchange I think...Can u make it out?

Ok, food finally here!!

stuffed chicken wings


We also had the Thai Fish cake but no pictures here… …

After the appetiter come the soup. Darling ordered a Tom Yam soup while I ordered a Soto Ayam soup.
The Tom Yam soup was shiok but the Soto Ayam as “so-so” only lah.

What’s next after soup??? Hmm….let me think… Salad!
Yup, we ordered the Thai Mango Salad and the Pomelo Salad, check it out!

Thai Mango Salad


Pomelo Salad

After the sour and sweet and spicy salad, our appetites are tickled! “Gu-Chi, Gu-Chi” Loz, lame…..

Time for some fooling around before our main dishes arrive!!

Our Champagne


Cheers to everlasting bliss and happiness


As requested by Darling


Relive Bali with a flower on her ear

Here comes the main dish…Behold, the Mighty Jimbaran BBQ seafood platter! Featuring tiger prawns, red snapper, Nasi Goreng, mussels and Sambal Sotong!

Our main course Jimbaran BBQ seafood


another view of our giant BBQ seafood platter

We can get quite drunk with champagne….haha we cannot walk straight after drinking a few glasses….

Darling pours the champagne...wasted that there's no glass tower


Yam Seng!


Semi-Drunk Darling


Semi-Drunk Dar Dar


Can you make out the heart shape?

Semi-Drunk Darling started playing with the rose…..peeling off the petals 1 by 1……”Dar Dar love me…Dar Dar love me not….Dar Dar love me….”

Darling asking the rose if I love her, Lucky it said that I do!

Dessert came shortly but we are both full from the dishes before and bloated from our amateur drinking of champagne..haha

Our dessert Pisang pepe


Brownies dessert

We made our way back at 12+ AM. Since it was raining, we had difficulty calling for a cab. Very Kua-Zhang leh, I was put on call waiting for the longest time! We grew impatient as darling still have to work the next day. So we walked out to the main road, under the same umbrella. Well, the cab along the streets were not as hard to find leh, we managed to find 1 within 10 minutes! Maybe the taxi driver saw Darling cute and sweet!

We arrived home late that night… but truly enjoyable!

I hope I gave Darling a memorable first ROM anniversary.

I love you Darling!

Sleep liao lo Lover babies

wedding drawing near

1 month 7 days more…so what have we been up to?

Many things happened during the past 2-3 weeks and I am glad to say these are very happy things!

First, we had another go at Prize Stage at Marina Square =)
Darling has this vision and dreamt that she won the giant Rilakkuma via the jackpot, so in order to make her dream come true, we chiong to the marina square the following day! Heehee, happens to be payday cum bonus day so we can afford to spend spend spend!
There are 2 versions of the giant Rilakkuma doll, 1 with Rilakkuma wearing a scarf and mittens and the other 1 with Rilakkuma wearing a jumper-like yellow pants. Darling fell in love with the one wearing pants and off we go! We need to strike 4 jackpots on the same day in order to bring the prize home and so money money money changing time! We had a tough time getting our first jackpot, spending almost 80-90 golden coins before it came, the subsequent 3 were more efficient and we got our 4 jackpots within 300 golden coins =)
We also got a lot of Rilakkuma bears together with our giant one and darling can actually form a Rilakkuma gallery in her own bedroom loh! Haha, maybe we should set aside a Rilakkuma corner in our new flat to house our Rilakkumas.
Second: we have seen our pre-ROM shoot album layout and currently still making minor changes to 1 of the layout page. We are quite impressed with the rest of the 15 pages, just 1 page that needs to be altered…so we are looking forward to that. Jiayou Venus bridal!
Third: We just finished 6 pages of scrapbooking during our annual leave! Wow, I am very impressed by our works and we really put in a lot of effort in making our scrapbook k! We try not to repeat designs and we try to have themes in our every page. Scrapbooking is quite fun I must say and I am glad Darling is there with me to think of ideas. We will brainstorm ideas and go buy accessories, embellishments and papers before going my place to create these wonderful pieces of art! We loved the experience in doing the scrapbook and we really enjoyed each other’s company…a pity our leave ends so soon. We are aiming to have 10 pages of creative scrapbooking and the rest of the pages we will decorate for our guests to sign in. I am sure our guests will be mesmorized by the beauty of the book and amazed at how creative we can be. Heeheehee…I am proud of my darling!
Fourth, We just met up with our JP, Mr Jude Yeo and signed our consent forms. We efiled our ROM as well =)
Fifth, I just collected our wedding invites today and the cards are pretty and they are all personalized with our names =) Fellow friends, stay tuned, you will receive yours soon!

Time is running short, but excitment is building up and we are enjoying every moment if it! Now we can’t wait to go Bali for our honeymoon!

3 years 8 months and counting… …

Time flies… … It’s Happie Anniversary again! Kekeke. 18 Nov 09 was our 3 years 8 months anniversary and we spent it in luxury! =)
We went to meet Melanie regarding our estimated guest numbers and we have to make a number of decisions! Oh my, we increased our original plan of 30 pax to 50-60 pax! Our friends rulez!~
What we had to do… …
1) chose our invitation cards designs;
2) the inlays colour;
3) fonts for our wordings in the cards;
4) table linen;
5) seat cover;
6) lunch tables setup;
7) flowers and colours;
8) KIV wedding favours
That was quite a handful…but making those decisions makes it all the more exciting coz the date is drawing near! We want a march in as well…hmm…still undecided between marching in from the Koi pond/man made garden before our ROM proper, or walking into waterfall terrace after ROM proper… ..most likely going to choose the former. =p
We had a most scrumptious buffet dinner at The Line, kindly sponsored by my darling… heehee…will tell you why at the end of the post…

Outstanding issues to settle within these 2 months before our ROM!
1) scrapbook (have not started working on it yet, but I am sure with Dar Dar and Darling powers combined, we are Captain Scrapbook!)
2) wedding montage (heeheehee, I have been lazy I admit)
3) wedding song list
4) Darling’s ROM gown (going to look at the 99% finished product this sunday, will request minor alterations)
5) Darling’s shoes (soon-to-be ready for collection)
6) Dar Dar’s suit, shirt, pants (ready on 25 Dec 09)
7) choosing our pre-ROM shots from Venus, JB (going JB on 21 Nov to choose our photos! Can’t wait to see how beautiful my darling looks!)
8) wedding bands (they will be ready on 7 Dec 09, so exciting!!)
9) Honeymoon (going to email the Bali Villa the credit card details soon)
10) Meeting Mr Jude Yeo AKA Uncle Jude, as Darling will address him (mid December)
11) confirmation of guests, sending of wedding invites, choosing of Emcees at a later date in Dec/Jan

Now…why did Darling have to sponsor our anniversary dinner? Because she forgot my handphone number! Hahaha. =p

PS: Message me more, my dear, so you will never forget!
PPS: I still love you my dear =x

PPPS: Darling was playing with the sliding glass door sensors and making the glass doors open and close when nobody is walking through! Hahaha, and she truly enjoyed it…and I will enjoy it too coz I caught it all on video!

PPPPS: I love my darling! She’s so cute!

busy busy busy

Ok, been really busy recently both me and Xian. Xian has an assignment due end of the month and we are both working hard to get it done, so not been updating this…Sorry Blog!
Well, shall update a bit on what’s happening so far.
Xian has confirmed her wedding gown, size fits well and now is left for Quinn, our designer, to sew in the lacy flowers and the blings blings to complete the whole look! We have decided to let our gown be a secret =) Will definitely show it after 31 Jan 2010…heehee
As for me, I am thinking of making a suit as well, to complement Xian’s gown. I have a black suit lah, last time bought for use during convocation one, but hor, a bit out of place when I wear it and stand beside Darling who is wearing dreamy green leh. Quinn has sourced some tailor friend of hers, called Oscar tailor in Coleman street…so shall pay him a visit after we complete Xian’s assignment.
We have also confirmed our air tickets to Bali! Yay!!! We bought a pair of return tickets on AirAsia for SG338, quite a steal lah with good timings, so I am not complaining. We have also shortlisted 1 villa resort for our honeymoon villa and I am now “negotiating” the package via email.
Show u all the pictures of this gorgeous villa k… …

spa for 2 anyone?

spa for 2 anyone?


big-picnic

inclusive of hill top picnic


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interior of one of the villa


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interior of another villa


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our private pool overlooking the valley and Ayung river


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the inclusive redlight romantic dinner by our own pool


This place is Komaneka at Tanggayuda, ubud, the quoted package costs about USD1300 lah, still negotiating =)
Can’t wait to get married, can’t wait for our honeymoon… …

Bali!

I sooooo wanted to go Bali for my honeymoon with my darling, my wife!

Yupyup, this shall be our sweet sweet honeymoon after our ROM next year! Oohoo! I am looking at the various villas and resorts offering spendid views of the cliffs and sea! Very cool, some even got private spas, saunas, pools and games rooms complete with TV consoles!

I can imagine myself lazing on the deck chairs with my darling by my side, bathing in the sun, sipping fresh fruit juice on ice, watching the sea. Then when we feel hot, we will take a dip in the pool or even go for a warm massage. Oh yah, we will go for a relaxing spa together, listening to the sea waves crashing against the cliffs beneath us. At night, we will watch the stars together and hug each other to sleep…

Ok, shall stop dreaming and start planning! Haha, if not this dream will forever be a dream!